It may not be for you, my only advice is to make sure you watch it again. Yes there is a big plot twist but it by no means ruins the movie and while I was not a fan of the ending, you can see where things are going towards Avengers 2. On the one hand I love the suits and the fancy technology but it's Robert Downey's sarcasm and wit that make him so great for this franchise. One thing I like about this movie is that you get to learn more about Tony Stark, as much as I loved his arrogance in IM1, 2 at the end of Avengers he was humbled and that continues in this one. There's a lot less focus on explosions and fancy effects (although there is plenty of that) and more on dialogue and character development. That said it is significantly better than Iron Man 2 and that's because the story is deeper and direct. The first time I saw this movie I really didn't like it, I had just come off the high of 'The Avengers' and let me make it clear, this one isn't as good.
